Key Points to Know About Motivation:

• There are different forms of motivation - it isn’t just one thing.

• We are under many psychological and physiological drives at any given moment. You are not ‘weak’ for struggling to make a change.

• Some forms of motivation are stronger than others.

• Asking yourself why you want to make a change and tying it to who you are as a person can help you tap into your self-control.

Do You Really Need More Motivation? 

Sometimes we don’t feel like doing the things that move us closer towards our goals. 

For example:

• We might have a long day and work and not be in the mood for our gym sesh, even though we really want to get strong. 

• We might overeat at social situations, even though we have a fat loss goal.

That is part of being human.

You are not faulty, you aren’t lacking motivation and you don’t need more willpower. Struggling to make a change has little with you being a ‘weak’ person, and much more to do with your psychological and physiological drives. 

Let us explain why.

What is Motivation?

We often conflate motivation with the ‘will’ to do something. When you face a setback, you might be told that you don’t want it bad enough, or you just need to try harder. Clearly, this isn’t helpful. You know your goal is still important to you, so it isn’t a case of simply wanting it bad enough. You already want to change, but change is hard. The reason is that there is a difference between ‘motive’ and ‘motivation’. 

Motivation has been defined as all of the brain processes that energise behaviour, not just goals and decision-making, and includes conscious and unconscious processes. Understood in this way, it means that we are always motivated to do something. Otherwise we’d be static objects that don’t move or make decisions. We are always behaving in some way, whether these behaviours bring us closer to our goals or not. Understanding motivation can help us to understand why we do one thing even when we really want to do something else.

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Our responses at every moment are governed by potentially competing impulses and inhibitions.  Annoyingly, we can want two conflicting things at the same time. 

For example:

• Someone comes into the office with a piece of cake;

• You don’t really want to eat that because of a fat loss goal. 

• At the same time, you really do want to eat that cake because it looks good, tastes good and is right there in front of you! 

It doesn’t come down to a lack of willpower or motivation. This is a consequence of having a human brain that is constantly juggling a number of drives and impulses. 

Motivation isn’t Just One Thing

There are different forms of motivation which exist on a continuum, depending on where that motivation comes from. 

• Do you want to exercise and eat well to take care of yourself and look after your health? 

• Or do you want to lose fat because you fear you won’t be accepted otherwise?

These are two completely different reasons for change.

If you’re struggling to make a change, the amount of motivation you have might not be the issue. It could have a lot more to do with the type of motivation you have and the reasons you want to change.

To help find stronger sources of motivation, ask yourself why the change is really important to you:

• ‘Why do you want to lose 5kgs?’

• I want my clothes to fit a little better.

• ‘Why do you want your clothes to fit better?’

• I want to feel more confident day to day.

• ‘Why is feeling more confident important to you?’

• I think I hold myself back because I’m scared of what people think. 

• ‘Why is it important not to hold yourself back?’

• I want to be proud of who I am.

• ‘Why do you want to be proud of who you are?’

• So that I can accomplish the things I want to accomplish. I want to dedicate myself to my career and be there for my family and friends.

All of a sudden, you’ve found a much stronger source of motivation for making a change. [2] 

Your Identity and Values Affect Motivation

Identity plays an important role in motivation. 

If eating well and exercising becomes part of who we are, this can help us to tap into our self-control when we need it most.

Relating this back to types of motivation, aim to set goals that align with both: 

• what you value and 

• who you want to be

If you haven’t really thought about your identity, the type of person you want to be, it can help to think about what you value. This post HERE might help you figure this out.

Why do we think that our values and identity are linked? Well interestingly, there is a close anatomical relationship between two parts of the brain;

• the ventromedial prefrontal cortex (vmPFC), which is involved in valuation

• the medial prefrontal cortex, which is involved in self and identity. [3]

Key Takeaways to Help you with Motivation

• There are different forms of motivation - it isn’t just one thing.

• We are under many psychological and physiological drives at any given moment. You are not ‘weak’ for struggling to make a change.

• Some forms of motivation are stronger than others.

• Asking yourself why you want to make a change and tying it to who you are as a person can help you tap into your self-control.

References:

[1] Al-Rawahi, Said & Newton, Jonathon & Asimakopoulou, Koula & Masood, Mohd & Bulushi, Naeema & Yaqoobi, Khalid. (2019). The Psychological Models of Health-related Behavior in Understanding Sugars Intake in Adults: A Review. Oman medical journal. 35. 10.5001/omj.2020.32.  

[2] Legault L. (2017) Self-Determination Theory. In: Zeigler-Hill V., Shackelford T. (eds) Encyclopedia of Personality and Individual Differences. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-28099-8_1162-1

[3] De Ridder, D. (Ed.), Adriaanse, M. (Ed.), Fujita, K. (Ed.). (2018). Routledge International Handbook of Self-Control in Health and Well-Being. London: Routledge, https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315648576